helppls

March 02, 2009 - 11:50 pm
Girl needs advise from guys
I accidently found out that my boyfriend (35 yrs old) of 1 yr has been visiting gay porn sites. I was looking for some movie listings on his ipod touch, and accidently hit the back button too many times and it landed on the gay porn site. I asked him about it and he was immediately embarassed about it and didn't know what to say. I honestly was a little surprised, but expected him to have a legitimate plausible explanation so didn't freak out initially. As he was a little speechless initially, I left the room and asked to provide me with an explanation. He came up to me 10 min later, and said that when he takes dexetrine for his ADD (which he doesn't take regularly, but on and off) he has increased sex drive which he has to satisfy. He says that he starts off going to regular hetrosexual porn sites, but has become desensitized and to climax goes to the gay porn sites. He said that the idea of being with a guy in the real world and right after he climaxes, repulses him and he feels ashamed for having to do it in the first place. I haven't been able to find any specific documentation on Dexetrine and increased sex drive, and even if this was the case, does it make it ok for a 'hetrosexual' to be on gay websites? We have a really good sexual relationship, however this is something that bothers me...and i'm not really sure what to do...please help
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